For those who are not used to thinking and acting in this way, the transition can at
times feel strange. Don't worry! Everybody goes through this stage.
"Say less, Sell more!" A genuine interest in the customer
means you're keen to find out more about them - So let them tell you!
Learn to articulate what you do, who you do it for, and the pleasure they
get from having you do it, all without ever mentioning you, your business or your
products and services - OK, I'll allow "I work with ..." and "I help them ...", but
that's it. 50 words or less! Off you go!
Ask your prospects what they want, and ask your customers why they chose
to buy from you - Your belly-button isn't as good a source of reliable information! -
Neither is the ceiling or your colleagues
Customers are only interested in what they will get out of buying
from you. Realise this and accept it. They're not interested in
your longevity, your experience, your client list, or how exactly you will do what you
do - So don't try to tell them, unless you're asked! But when you are,
do tell
Prospects will often not be able to clearly describe the underlying
problem, but may well have thought about a possible solution. You are at
your most customer-centred when you help them explore their own thoughts, and lead them
to tell you all about the real problem
People don't buy what they need. They buy what they
want - And don't let any Sales Trainer tell you otherwise! The
customer-centred you might know they need something, but until they tell themselves
they want it, you're flogging a dead horse.
Of course, once they understand its value to them, they'll be begging to buy it and you
won't have to sell anything.
Always look at life from the other person's point of
view. Help them to help themselves. Don't issue commands, don't
even ask them to do anything. Offer suggestions, possibly options, and let
them tell you what they think.
Problems, issues, and concerns never exist in isolation. They
are always part of a larger picture. You cannot claim to be customer centred
if you don't investigate and understand how a problem fits into its surroundings.
If you're short on confidence, create yourself a list of probing
questions and try using one - Then keep quiet and listen to the answer. Now,
ask another!
When it comes to confidence, practice beats study, thought and procrastination every
time!
At the risk of sounding like a pure theorist, I believe you should always
talk about 'You' much, much more than you talk about yourself. Don't be a
urinary tract infection - going we, we, we all the time!
Give it a try and just see how much more compelling people find you.
David Winch
Pain Relief and Restorative Therapy for Sales and Marketing
Practical Help to Grow Your Business
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